The Film
Amour begins dramatically at the end of the story with scenes of
police and a fire crew battering their way into a Paris apartment
to find an elderly lady laid out dead on her bed which is strewn
with flowers. The film then proceeds to fill in the events that led
to this scene. At the start of the flashback we meet the main
protagonists, Georges and Anne, attending a piano recital, played
by one of Anne’s former pupils. The couple are clearly enjoying
their retirement bound together by a shared love of classical music
after a lifetime working as music teachers. This is the only time
in the film that we see them outside the confines of their home. On
returning to their apartment they find that they are victims of an
attempted break in. This highlights their vulnerability, especially
to Anne, but also demonstrates the mutually supportive relationship
that exists between them. The following morning at breakfast,
Anne suffers a transient loss of awareness and responsiveness, a
probable transient ischaemic attack or TIA. Frightened and
perplexed by this event, Anne is encouraged to visit her doctor by
Georges. This results in her having an operation on her carotid
artery, which we learn fails to have a positive outcome. Whilst
Anne is still in hospital, Georges is visited by their daughter
Eva. In conversation with him, Eva reveals that her husband Geoff
has had another extramarital affair, contrasting the nature of her
marriage with her parents’ marriage. Eva asks her father if she can
help in any way, but Georges tells her, “We’ve always coped, your
mother and I”.
Before Anne returns from hospital, a hospital bed is installed
in their bedroom and when we see her next, she is confined to a
wheelchair, paralysed down her right side. The scenes that follow
show how rapidly Georges must learn to be a carer, despite his own
frailty and unsteadiness, and fulfill the many new tasks necessary
to allow Anne to stay with him at home. Delighted to be back
together, Anne asks Georges to promise that he will never allow her
to be admitted to hospital again. The film brilliantly portrays the
negotiation that then begins between the couple about the need for
support versus Anne’s desire for independence in personal care
tasks as the balance in their relationship changes. This is
exquisitely demonstrated when Anne needs to call for help when on
the toilet, shifting their intimate relationship into a new
realm.
After Georges returns from attending a funeral of an old friend,
he finds Anne on the floor in the hallway. She is low in mood and
tells Georges that she does not want to go on living like this as
she knows that she will only get worse. Georges clutches at her
potential for improvement and will not believe her. A visit from
her former pupil, now a successful pianist proves awkward as the
musician finds it hard to adjust to Anne’s disability and she
refuses to talk about it. Her depression is apparent. Some humour
is introduced in the form of an electric wheelchair which provides
Anne with some more independence around the apartment but this is
short lived. Then a further stroke leaves her with trouble speaking
(an expressive dysphasia) and the onset of dementia. During a visit
from her daughter and son-in-law, Georges informs them that he is
planning to pay for a carer to come in three times a week. This
presents a huge challenge for Georges as he is forced to relinquish
some control over Anne’s care but cannot bear to see one of the
carers fail to deal with Anne in a sufficiently dignified and
respectful manner, forcing him to dismiss her.
I will not describe in detail the final part of the film which
follows Anne’s deterioration into the final stages of her dementia,
when she requires full assistance in all areas of personal care. It
is then that Georges takes a very particular decision to end their
mutual suffering.
Relevance to the field of Mental Health
Amour offers a number of learning opportunities for
those interested in or involved in caring for the elderly
population. It provides a valuable lesson on the effect of sudden
physical disability caused by stroke in an individual, which
radically alters the balance within the longstanding relationship
with their partner; it portrays an episode of post-stroke
depression and then, after another stroke, it follows the onset of
dementia with the subsequent deterioration demanding ever
increasing levels of assistance with personal care.
With its focus on the very private and intimate caring
relationship between Georges and Anne after she has developed
dementia, Amour offers an incredibly powerful portrait of the real
stress that carers may experience, if they continue to want to
provide the majority of the personal care required. It conveys the
loneliness that informal carers often experience when looking after
their loved one who can no longer converse meaningfully with them.
Highlighting the emotional vulnerability that such a caring role
can cause, this film must surely encourage health professionals to
be attuned to the needs of the unpaid carers who support dementia
sufferers in the community. Further information about the stresses
that carers face can be found at the
Alzheimer’s Society website.
The film also raises the complex issues around the final stages
of life when an individual has expressed their own preference to
stay at home until the end of their life. The issues of wider
family are brought in very effectively in the person of Eva, their
daughter, who is herself a busy musician living abroad and somewhat
distant from her parents. Her right to express a view on her
mother’s caring arrangements is sensitively explored as the
tensions between the generations emerge, raising the very important
question “who gets to choose what is best for an individual when
mental capacity to make a particular decision about care is lost?”.
This would be a perfect foundation for a discussion on The Mental
Capacity Act in the UK and the process by which a Best Interests
Decision is reached on behalf of a person lacking mental capacity
for that particular decision. It also offers an opportunity to
consider the use of Advanced Decisions to refuse treatment. These
topics are explained clearly in a
Factsheet published by the Alzheimer’s
Society. The film’s ending will surely also generate much
discussion.
As a portrait of vascular dementia, Amour provides a perfect
case study. A very good article published recently in Advances in
Psychiatric Treatment (2012), vol. 18, 372-380 entitled
Vascular dementia: a pragmatic review by Hugh Series &
Margaret Esiri (abstract)
would provide an excellent learning opportunity set alongside a
viewing of the film. Additionally the full
text of an article published in the British Journal of
Psychiatry (2002),
180: 152-156 entitled Vascular dementia: a diagnosis running out
of time by Robert Stewart may provide further useful background
information.
I would highly recommend this film to all health professionals
interested in working in Older Age Medicine or Psychiatry. But
perhaps most important of all, Amour challenges the individual
viewer to reflect upon their own attitudes to ageing and disability
questioning how they would cope with the suffering of a loved one
in a similar situation.
* More information about Amour can be found at IMDB,
as can a short trailer.
* Amour can be purchased at
amazon.co.uk
* Minds on Film is written by Consultant Psychiatrist, Dr Joyce
Almeida
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